I'm desire 『JaniceXxuan 』becOme your dear friend nOt your enemy , so LOVE me more and support me MOre....terima kasih,heeeheee =)
Emmmm...EverybOdy who interest V me , let's just talking about ♥ life...
I love this ,so I share it with you all...please read with your true heart...this all write by a precious person....
' LY '....thank kiu her taught me sO much ...
To all the good people, forgiving is good. But too forgiving ? Is not good. You have to be sensitive of what's going on. Know, what's going on. Do not allow people to take free rides on us. We're not a roller coaster in Theme Park so why allow others to take us for a fun ride again and again ...Forgive me I can't dO it.
Friendship is very subjective. You can either grab it or throw it away in a short time. And 'Hi' could start one, and a 'Bye' can end one. So what's the fuss worrying so much about what your friend's ? You life wont end with less of them and wont blossom to max with hell loads of them either way. Quality over quantity in friendship. So ? Why upset yourself so much ?
Some might debate that love cant be weight by how much you gave out, and how much you should take back. But hey, friendship is not a relationship, ok?? It's a 'I need you/a favor now, are you free?' and 'Yes, i am so free now/Ya, im ok.' situation.
There's so many kinds of friendship if we want to analyze and break it into categories. Business-friendship, friends-friendship, companion-friendship, network-friendship, your-friends-are-my-friends-too-friendship, oh-i-met-her/him-once-friendship ... bla...bla...bla..many many ...
Please remember, remember that you can't occupation a friend or a person. When is the time for them to leave and move on with their life, let them go ahead . They are drifting away. This is called life. Can't complain anymore or blame the god ! People ar people ....you come and go. Many foot prints stays but the shoes have changed. From 1 pair of slippers to heels to sport shoes ... people move on, we move on. You just can smile always to welcome them and thanks kiu them ever visit your life before. shhhh =)
From a new part in life, new job , new relationships, new family, new boyfriend, new girlfriend, new groups of friends, new environment, getting married, having a baby, divorced, a death of someone in their family, something you did, something they did, something you're doing, something they're doing ... Every single incident could possibly be the starting point of someone to move on ... Then, move out of a friendship, or should we say in a more polite manner - drifted away....
I think friendship shouldn't be a force field. It should come in naturally. A friend doesn't mean that they need to be there with us all the time, and have to help us out 24hours. They just need to give us that comfort feeling that we're not alone all the time, in our♥ hearts. SO that we know, someone is there for us ... But not tied up as a responsible, a relationship. Just a simple, free??yeah~~~sweet relationship =FRIENDSHIP.
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I have seen so many people getting upset with their friends until the extend where they do really really really sad and hurt things. What's wrong with these people ? Come on. They are not worth it.NO VALUE !!!okay? Move it on. Why waste your life on someone whom you no longer love ? Your life is precious, make it worthwhile. Enjoy the memorable sweet time you once had with that friend, smile, and then get over it. Come on, Friends are everywhere. Here's one though .....like a cuties ME...mmmuahahaha =) ♥
